Non-defining relative clauses add details, not essential, about the person or thing we are discussing. They are usually set off by commas.

Example

  • This music, which I really like, was used at the show.
  • My sister, who I truly admire, is coming for Thanksgiving.

In non-defining relative clauses, who and which cannot be replaced with that or omitted.

Example

  • This music, that I really like, was used at the show. ❌
  • This music, which I really like, was used at the show. ✅
  • My sister, I truly admire, is coming for Thanksgiving. ❌
  • My sister, whom I truly admire, is coming for Thanksgiving. ✅

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